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Social Networks

The Internet is an ever-changing source of information. Inevitably, some of the links below will stop working. We will do our best to keep links current and remove broken links. Below you will find just a sampling of the hundreds of online resources and articles related to social networks.

We do not recommend that teens under 16 have their have social network accounts with adult sites such as Facebook, MySpace, YouTube and BeBo. We know, all too well however, that the majority of children age thirteen and up have social network accounts. We strongly recommend that parents have access to their children's accounts and periodically check on them as well as have discussions about issues related to social networks. [See "Our Advice" below.

SourceSafety and Privacy in Social Networks
Our AdviceThe topic of social networks, children and teens is quite broad with opinions spread widely apart. Children Online always chooses to err on the side of caution and recommend what is in the best interest of the child/teen. Our research and many years working with students and parents has demonstrated that most are not aware of the inherent risks of social networks. We strongly recommend reading our article "The Impact of Facebook on Our Students" [pdf], which was published on the National Association of Independent Schools website and also in a 2009 issue of the Journal for School Library Professionals.

Social networks are certainly not evil. There are, of course, many positive and valuable outcomes to using them. However, children and teen sare most vulnerable for a wide variety of reasons (read the above article) and anyone using social networks can assume the following:

  1. There is no such thing as privacy, even with accounts that require a login and password.
  2. The information we post in our social networks is scrubbed for data valuable to others including scammers and marketers.
  3. Teens' "private" pages have been viewed by school administrators, teachers, parents, police, summer camp direcctors, college admissions officers, employers, and others, sometimes resulting in serious consequences for the teen.
  4. Social Networks such as Facebook, MySpace and LinkedIn attract a great deal of scams, fraud and theft.
  5. People are not always who they say they are and do not always have our best interests in mind.
  6. Social Networks are the weapon of choice for teens intent on hurting, humiliating or embarssing someone else.
  7. Even in "moderated" social networks designed for younger children and tweens, such as Webkinz, Club Penguin and WeeWorld, children are subjected to bullying, harassment and sexual solicitation.
  8. Children and younger teens regularly using social networks are more likely to be exposed to content and behavior that is not age-appropriate.
  9. Many Add-On applications (sometimes called widgets) for social networks such as Facebook and MySpace are disguised adware or spyware.

ArticleLarry Magid's Interview with Facebook CEO, Mark Zuckerberg - Podcast [May, 2010]
ArticleHow Should Facebook and MySpace Handle Cyberbullying? By Emily Bazelon; Slate.com [March, 2010]
ArticleSocial networking phishing attacks up 240% By Kelly Jackson Higgins; DarkReading.com [June, 2009]
ArticleWhen Young Teachers Go Wild on the Web - Public Profiles Raise Questions of Propriety and Privacy By Ian Shapira; Washington Post Staff Writer [April, 2008]
ArticleCollege Applicants, Beware: Your Facebook Page Is Showing By John Hechinger; Wall Street Journal [September, 2008]
ArticleColleges and Universities using MySpace, Facebook, Blogs and Other Online Tools to Learn More about Applicants By John Hoey; Umass Dartmouth [September, 2007]
ResourceSearch Facebook Accounts from YourOpenBook.org - Learn what is publicly available on Facebook accounts
ResourceWho's Looking at You? By Holly Hawkins; SafetyClicks.com [September, 2008]
ResourceProtect Kids On MySpace: Larry Magid Says The Popular Web Site Attracts Predators, Too [February, 2006]
ResourceOne Friend Facebook Hasn't Made Yet: Privacy Rights By Adam Cohen; New York Times [February, 2008]
ResourceDoing Something Sketchy? It's hard to cover up now! By Susan Dominus; New York Times [March, 2008]
SourceSocial Networks in the News
ArticleWhy Facebook is Wrong: Privacy is still important
ACLU ArticleACLU Calls for Stronger Facebook Privacy Defaults
AllFacebook.com10 Privacy Settings Every Facebook User Should Know
CNNFacebook Imposters on the Rise
N.Y. TimesFacebook Honesty Box: If You Don't Have Anything Nice to Post... By Joanne Kaufman, New York Times [March, 2008]
N.Y. TimesHow Sticky is Membership on Facebook? Just Try Breaking Free. by Maria Aspa; New York Times [February, 2008]
ArticleGirl, 14, faces porn charge of MySpace pictures of herself
SourceScams and Fraud Targeting Social Networks
ResourceFacebook Password Reset Scam Goes Global [March, 2010]
ResourceSocial Media Malware: How to spot it & avoid it [January, 2010]
ResourceRecommendations to protect against identity theft on Facebook [December, 2009]
ResourceBest Practices to Avoid Malware on Facebook and Twitter [October, 2009]
ResourceFive Facebook Scams - includes a slideshow of 12 tips for safe social networking [February, 2009]
ResourceTop 6 Facebook Scams and How to Protect Yourself [April, 2009]
ArticleWARNING: New Facebook Scams Today, Junfunrun and Bulitre [June, 2009]
ArticleBetter Business Bureau Warns of Facebook Scams [January, 2009]
ArticleDeja Vu: New Scams Hit Facebook and Twitter [May, 2009]
ArticleHow Smart Are You? IQ Test Scams Facebook Users [June, 2009]
ArticleScam sites increasingly masquerading as Facebook, MySpace [May, 2009]
ArticleMalware is Most Potent on Social Networks[May, 2009]
SourceResources for Teens and Parents Concerning Social Networks
How toDELETE a Facebook account (login required)
How toHow to better secure your Facebook account [March, 2010]
How toHow to set Facebook privacy controls from Common Sense Media [March, 2010]
How to5 Easy Steps to Stay Safe (& Private) on Facebook by Sarah Perez (September, 2009)
ResourceFacebook Phishing Scam Awareness Group - for those with a Facebook account.
ResourceSocial Network Tips from CommonSenseMedia.org
ResourceSocial Networking Sites: A Parents' Guide from OnGuardOnline.gov
ResourceHow to Use Facebook Privacy Settings from ConnectSafely.org
ResourceSafe Social Networking - This site is especially designed for girls.
ResourceYourSphere - Safety First Social Network for Teens
ResourceFacebook for Parents - A site devoted to helping parents understand Facebook. Produces a free newsletter.
ResourceTest Your Knowledge on Social Networking Safety from GirlScouts.org Short and well done.
ResourceFTC: Social Networking Sites: Safety Tips for Tweens and Teens [May, 2006 - still relevant!]
ResearchReputation Management and Social Media - a study from the PEW Internet and American Life Porject. [May, 2010]
SourceChildren's Social Networks
Undercover ResearchUndercover Mom in ClubPenguin, Part 4: The 'dating' game [March, 2009 - part 4 of a series of articles]
ArticleTop 8 Workarounds of Kid Virtual World Users [July, 2008]
ResourceSharon Estroff's web site - Sharon, a mom & teacher, does a lot of investigating of children's social networks such as Club Penguin, and other children's sites.
BlogMore Scandals in Club Penguin [March, 2009]
BlogWebkinz Bullying [September, 2007] NOTE from ChildrenOnline.org: The most common way in which younger children are taken advantage of online is by sharing the passwords of their online accounts with others.